Dude. I'm not saying either way.
But I'm awakened after forty years being fully in. My other half knows exactly how I feel, and because I love her I've agreed to pretend to be a witness to a very small extent.
The negatives? I attend most meetings, (except on the flimsiest of excuses) . I do a couple hours a month ministry.
The positives? I keep the pretty half happy, we both keep our social circle, and our families. I've been pretending for years so that's no biggie, and my HOPE is I'll be able to get her to think (eventually) about why I don't believe anymore.
Watch this space.